{"id":13878,"date":"2022-06-30T10:56:28","date_gmt":"2022-06-30T09:56:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cassandravoices.com\/?p=13878"},"modified":"2022-06-30T10:56:28","modified_gmt":"2022-06-30T09:56:28","slug":"notes-to-self-on-the-pending-passing-of-a-loved-one","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/casswp.eutonom.eu\/index.php\/2022\/06\/30\/notes-to-self-on-the-pending-passing-of-a-loved-one\/","title":{"rendered":"Notes to Self on the Pending Passing of a Loved One"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>1. Don&#8217;t be prepared.<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>2. Honour both the living and the dead.<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>3. Be prepared to give offence.<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>4. And to take offence.<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>5. Stand your ground.<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>6. Listen.<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>7. Express.<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>8. Accept.<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>9. Don&#8217;t fall into the ground.<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>10. Be kind.<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>11. Leave it all behind.<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>12. Enough said.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Feature Image: Daniele Idini<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>We are an independent media platform dependent on readers\u2019 support. You can contribute on an ongoing basis via <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.patreon.com\/cassandravoices\">Patreon<\/a><\/span> or through a one-off contribution via <span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.buymeacoffee.com\/cassandravoices\">Buy Me a Coffee<\/a><\/span>. Any small amount is hugely appreciated.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. Don&#8217;t be prepared. 2. Honour both the living and the dead. 3. Be prepared to give offence. 4. And to take offence. 5. Stand your ground. 6. Listen. 7. Express. 8. Accept. 9. Don&#8217;t fall into the ground. 10. Be kind. 11. Leave it all behind. 12. Enough said. Feature Image: Daniele Idini We [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":306,"featured_media":13879,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18],"tags":[5114,5115,5116,5117,5118,5673,6698,6837,6996,7081,8260,8500,8922],"class_list":["post-13878","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-society","tag-justin-mccarthy","tag-justin-mccarthy-cassandra-voices","tag-justin-mccarthy-dingle","tag-justin-mccarthy-poet","tag-justin-mccarthy-writer","tag-loved","tag-notes","tag-one","tag-passing","tag-pending","tag-self","tag-society","tag-the"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/casswp.eutonom.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13878","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/casswp.eutonom.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/casswp.eutonom.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/casswp.eutonom.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/306"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/casswp.eutonom.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=13878"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/casswp.eutonom.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/13878\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/casswp.eutonom.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/casswp.eutonom.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=13878"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/casswp.eutonom.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=13878"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/casswp.eutonom.eu\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=13878"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}